Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 9, 2020

I, Me, Myself, my Guru and my God

  


30th November 2020 was the birth anniversary of Guru Nanak ji, whose disciples are known as the Sikhs.
A few acquaintances of ours wanted to accompany and join us in the celebrations of the Guru's birthday. So we set off for the 'Gurudwara', (Sikh congregation hall) where they could partake in the prayers and the singing of hymns and receive some prasad.

I remembered a similar visit of Gurpurab about a decade ago.
My chest expanded with pride, as I answered their questions about Sikhism and the Gurus. On and on, I went about religion, My God, My Guru. Suddenly I had an epiphany. I realised and felt very foolish as I realised that not only was I boasting, as a Sikh I was taking  ownership of God, Guru, and all of Creation.


It dawned upon me that my expression was just the jabbering of a petty, arrogant and unawakened mind. Foolishly rather mindlessly like countless myopic followers of various faiths  I too was blinded by my arrogance, I too was trying to usurp not only God and Guru, but everything I came into contact with.

'My Guru, my God, my Faith'. How could I for even a fraction of a moment presume that all these belonged only to me?  Me, an insignificant piece of creation was now claiming exclusive ownership over Guru, God, all Creation.

Guru Nanak ji, was not a Sikh Guru, he was a Jagat Guru. A Guru for the entire universe. I realised I had begun my journey as a Sikh (student), leaving the path of the follower to become a disciple. Luckily my companions did not comment. They either did not notice or were too gracious to overlook my ignorance.

Anyone who knows God cannot describe God. Anyone who can describe God does not know God.

Sunday, February 9, 2020

It will pass



We will always see the divine in the form we have been taught all our lives in our places of study and worship or in our literature and art.  
If that should happen, then we should know that we are not experiencing the divine. 

The human mind is so powerful that it easily fools even us ourselves. When we desperately long for something, our mind is easily capable of conjuring it up for us. 

Our minds are very powerful, therefore it projects whatever we desperately seek. We feel we are conscious but in reality we hallucinate.

It is not necessary for us to seek the truth, like insects we can be born and like insects we can die. However if we wish to be truly happy and liberated, then to the core of our being we must travel.

Answers we will not find outside of ourselves, but only within.  
To travel inwards we must get rid of all that is superfluous to our being. 
What are these superfluous elements?

Its important note that anything that comes and goes is not us. 
Our possessions, attachments, desires, and anger, they are things that will come and go. We believe that they are us, but they are not. They are mere acquisitions. These are the things that will not permit us to journey within ourselves.

Then there is the ego, the 'I'.  
As long as the 'I' exists it inhibits us from discovering the truth. When we let go of the ego 
As the Guru explains, the truth is realised not by seeking but by letting go. Because we do not enter the divine, but make ourselves open to let the divine emerge from within us. 

Letting go will occur when we realise that all existence is an illusion or what the ancients call "Maya'. This realisation can come to us when we achieve great success, great failure, great anguish, sorrow, or exhilaration which leads us to meditation.

Meditating because we are merely seeking or because we are bored will produce what the student discovered, that it too will pass and we are back right we started from. 

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Monday, February 2, 2015

Purify Oneself

















There is much talk of leading pure lives, but how shall we purify ourselves?
Time tested ancient wisdom of India lists 10 easy to practice ways to achieve purity in our existence

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  1. Body gets purified by Bathing and Exercising
  2. Breath gets purified by practicing Yogic Breathing (Praanayam)
  3. Mind gets purified by Meditating
  4. Intellect gets purified by Acquiring Knowledge
  5. Memory gets purified by Reflection and Thinking
  6. Food gets purified by having positive thoughts while Cooking and Eating
  7. Self gets purified by Maintaining Silence
  8. Ego gets purified by Serving
  9. Wealth gets purified by being Charitable
  10. Emotions / Feelings gets purified by giving Selfless Love


Friday, December 12, 2014

Forgive me, for I have sinned




A river is a source of life, nurturing people, vegetation, and animals living on the lands through which it flows.  The river is only doing its duty, following it's nature or what people in the East call as 'Dharma'.


Similarly humans are true to their nature. Our lives are akin to a river, alive and full of character. All humans possess their natural qualities of lust, anger, greed, ego and attachments to people and things. We need these qualities to survive. As long as they remain within reasonable limits, these qualities will help us to live healthy and happy lives.

Lust is essential for us to procreate, that is to produce children and live healthy lives. Ego permits us to give confidence to others so that they cooperate and support our endeavours. Anger is necessary to prevent being run over by one and all. Reasonable greed compels us to go out and acquire food, shelter, security and comfort for ourselves and our dependants. Attachment is necessary for us to preserve what we have acquired with so much effort.

Nature is all about balance. As long as there is balance there is tranquility. Sometimes we develop insatiable lust or greed, unlimited anger, undue attachment or get blinded by our ego our lives get imbalanced. The imbalance always causes disharmony, inconvenience and sometimes even agony to ourselves and others. Life becomes a living hell.

Life as can be seen in every facet of nature, is about balance. As long as there is balance there is tranquility. Sometimes we develop insatiable lust or greed, unlimited anger, undue attachment or get blinded by our ego our lives get imbalanced. The imbalance causes agony and inconvenience to ourselves and others.

Awakening and wisdom lies in each individual understanding of who and what they are and what is reasonable and necessary for themselves. People who flow with nature are at peace with themselves, are compassionate, peaceful, happy and useful to themselves and others.




Over the ages and from time to time, Gurus, masters, prophets, messiahs and teachers have come, awoken and guided humanity.  They made people realise that they were all spiritual beings.

Soon after the masters and Gurus left this earth, many clever but not necessarily good people have interpreted the teachings to suit their own convenience. They use organised religion not to liberate or make people spiritual but  to manipulate and control them. for their own purposes





Priests and custodians of all organised religions, in league with political leaders and rulers, have discovered a powerful approach to manipulate and exploit the masses. Messing up minds they inflict on them a terrible sense of guilt, and the masses will do whatever the priests want. Guilt is mostly manufactured. They make people feel guilty not only of having these natural human qualities but even for thinking about them.

This is the reason why in the name of religion, more blood has been shed and more misery caused than all other reasons combined.




'Guilty', people feel they have sinned, and sinners need to be unburdened of their guilt. The priests can demand whatever they like of the guilty and the sinner will gladly pay the price just to feel liberated.






People will repeatedly behave true to their human nature. This will always be considered as a 'sin' by the priests. There are two choices behave unnaturally or to 'sin'. The dilemma is that both choices are bad.

This sets people up to be continuously exploited by the priests. This in turn results in a perpetual  and ever increasing empowerment and enrichment of the priests and the religious bodies. Little  wonder that all organised religious bodies and their caretakers are immensely wealthy and powerful and that there is a constant struggle to control religious bodies.

Many 'religious' people themselves are full of the same human qualities and 'sins' for which they ask us to atone.

Next time ask yourself if you really are a sinner before you ask for forgiveness.

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Who the hell are you?




Fifteen years ago, as highly successful industrialists our family was very comfortable and we had almost everything we desired. We had it all.

It was after lunch one day that my brother  Parvinder and I, decided to go for a walk  around the neighbourhood. Dressed too casually in shorts,  T shirt and sandals we walked around for a while before we came to a bungalow complex where a friend lived.  We were thirsty and decided to go to his home and get something to drink.

Shockingly the security watchman refused to let us enter the complex. We initially tried reasoning with the rigid oaf, then demanding, and finally threatening him that he would lose his job. All to no avail, he was one stubborn man.

Not being able to quench our thirst was one matter but when the watchman asked, "Who the hell are you? I don't know you." our egos really took a beating.

This very same watchman would leap into action to fling open the gates of the complex whenever we drove into the complex in our Mercedes, now refused to let us enter. What was wrong with this man?  I was upset and getting angrier by the minute.

My philosophical and logical brother said, "Hey! he does not recognize us, he recognizes only our cars. Since we are now on foot the man is acting silly. Let's forget this rude man and your friend, let's just go home, we will be there in ten minutes"

Blinded by my ego and inflated impressions about myself,  I learnt nothing from that experience until almost a decade later. In the intervening years our industries grew from strength to strength only to unfortunately collapse during the next recession.

With the downfall was lost most of our material possessions and now we stood as individuals, laid bare without those superficial layers of wealth with which we adorned ourselves. It was a time of reckoning.

The world had nothing to offer to heal my spirit and my thoughts turned to God and I began to introspect. I found incredible courage in prayer and meditation, and thanked my elders for having taught me  how to reach out to God. 
I finally realised that in essence, there was this little soul of mine and that great soul of our Creator and nothing else that really mattered. With this realisation came a liberation of the being and I was born anew.

Irrelevant was my rank or the glittering riches and the props I used to define myself. I began to look for meaning in my existence and finally discovered that living each moment that I am nothing and a nobody except what my Creator wishes me to be. 


The higher we rise materially the more pompous we become with an increasing fragile ego. The more we progress spiritually the more humble we become as the ego dissolves, and the stronger our being becomes. 


Only those that have felt pain and sorrow can truly appreciate joy. Only when one has faced destruction that we can begin to sense  the meaning of creation.

Keep me in palaces or in a hutment, rich or poor, alone or with dear ones, if I accept my destiny and do my sincere best the joy will always be there.




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Albert Einstein once said, "Try to become not a man of success, but try rather to become a man of value."
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